let’s start our journey towards happy and positive life!
In every one’s life there is a phase where you start feeling low and negitivity becomes your best friend. Then comes a situation when you feel trapped under numbing loneliness. Being negative is normal for a human being, there are times where you look at your loopholes and think that you are not worth it. But fellas there is a bright world out there and you cannot live in darkness forever. Thatswhy I am here to suggest you some tips that will turn you into a happy soul and as long as you keep those tips in your mind negativity will not touch you
Find your Happiness
You need to make up your mind to be happy because most folks are about as happpy as they make up their mind to be. The secret of happiness is to do something that you love to do and that satisfies your soul. To find happiness we must seek for it in little things, having a late night ice cream, reading your favourite book, sharing with your diary and so on and so forth. Happiness cannot be bought, money has very little to do with it. Be satisfied with what you have because nobody else can have it. Enjoy yourself because you are unique. And smile because you have reasons to.
Inner faith
Keeping faith on yourselves is a necessity, without faith any human is imcomplete. It does not matter if you keep faith in youself or a spiritual being, if your have faith in any, you’ll be “unafraid”. Keep patience and do what you’re supposed to do, you’ll get your results now or later but you’ll. Without divine assistance you won’t suceed and with it you won’t fail. Life can be just the way you want it to be just start believing in yourself.
Conquer your
fear
What is patience but an equanimity which makes you enable to rise superior to the trials of life it is nothing other than courage. Have Courage to tell yourself that this, too, shall pass away. Don’t let your fears be your master, let you be the master of your fears. Remember that you and only you are master of your fate and captain of your sole. Remember it’s not what you have lost, but about what remains with you that counts. Facing and accepting a loss is the first step of managing bereavement. Only the life which deliberately picks up and starts over again is victorious. Believe me every one of us has warrior within ourselves and we can achieve victory and gear up our courage to fight whatever situations life give us and win.
Aim for Confidence
Look towards all those things which make you good as an individual and gear up your confidence. The virtue of all achievement is victory over oneself. Those who know this victory can never know defeat. You wake up in the morning and guess what your purse is magically filled with twenty four hours – the most precious of possessions make at most use of that, wear your confidence and make your day flaw less. We must do the best we can with what we have. Remember there is always another chance. This thing that we call “failure” is not falling down but staying down. Be confident and how you achieve what all you want to say to yourself that – I can do this and surely you’ll end up doing that. But beware confidence is good not “over confidence”.
Self- discipline & development of character
A person’s own character is the arbiter of her/his fortune all of you must have heard this and this is true. Observing self-discipline eventually decreases the amount of stress and tensions which won’t lead you to any negativity. The divinity which shapes our ends is in our selves. All that a person achieves or fails to achieve is direct result of his/her own thoughts. Your life is for yourself, it’s not for spectacle. What you must do is all that you should be concerned for not what people think. Do remind yourself every day “I will lead my life and practice my art in uprightness and honor”- Hippocrates. You will gradually see yourself developing into better individual.
Personality and relationship to others
What you do not wish done to yourself , do not do it to others, once you realise what wrong you have done you’ll start feeling guilty and will be ashamed of your own self. The art of pleasing others requires only desire. Your personality defines your characters and says what you are. Don’t let anyone around you be a negative vibe, be friendly to all do no harm so that you don’t meet a situation where you’re cursing yourself. See how people around you made you feel awkward will make you feel special, and good vibes make you feel positive.
Peace of heart and mind
Nothing else can bring you peace but you your self can do it. Live every day as your last enjoy it the best way you can because what you have today will not be there tomorrow. You want to gain emotional poise? Remember the hour glass, the grains of sand dropping one by one. The crowded hour come to you always one moment at a time. Your heart, you want peace for the one who is always restless? The best medicine is stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about others. Start doing that and you, yourself will notice the difference between what life was and what life is.
Love and family life
There is no such place as home, there may be many of you who are just so irritated being at home around parents or around you wife/husband. Mid pleasures and all places you may roam, be it so overwhelming that you can’t get over that place but believe me at the end there is no such place as home. Just try to understand every individual’s perspective and make yours clear coz to be happy at home is ultimate result of all your ambitions.
Hope for future
We are just at the beginning of progress in every field of what we really want to achieve and what we really want to do have your ambitions clear and work toward it . your hard work will surely reward you . make your present the best way possible, make the best use of your present , keeping in mind your goals for future and see how busy happy and satisf
Believe in karma
Karma says whatever you do weather be it good or bad returns back, so simply keep doing good for others don’t harm and believe in karma. Even your small step of helping others, karma will reward you. Use Karma wisely and see how positive and happy you’ll be.
At last I would just tell you friends that it all lies in our hand, why to think negative, I know it’s tough to be positive at first, but at last you’ll be rewarded with all happiness you always wished for. Do remember positivity is always a great power which always wins over negativity.
Jyoti